Yes. Only about every 4 days. Background, his hygiene started suffering about 8 months ago. He only brushes his teeth once a week as well. He is NOT depressed. I used to joke with him in the beginning to avoid hurting his feelings, but I bring it up to him often(usually when he wants to have sex… which is everyday).

He will do a bird bath and only wipe his private parts. I asked him why and he says “oh I didn’t sweat like that today.”

WTF yes you did! And if you didn’t, you STILL need to wash your ass! 🫤🫤🫤

I take very good care of myself and my hygiene and I’m not gonna lie. It’s starting to be a major turn off for me and i have told him that!

For example. He works a very physical job. He sweats all day, and he’s touching so much product throughout the day.

He got off work at 1pm, went to work out, got home at 3pm and it’s 11pm and he’s just took off his clothes, and hopped in the bed. I have even asked him not to get in the bed dirty !

I have bought new toothbrushes, new soaps for him, said let’s shower together etc…

Y’all idk. I’m at my wits end with frustration!!!!

I think it’s laziness seeing as he can sit on the game for 3 hours and not take a 10 min shower!

Am I being too harsh ???