I shared the below post a few weeks ago and I received a lot of comments saying that I am the bad person for sexualising this. So I left it. However, today it has happened again where my husband was tickling our kids on his way to work and he pulled down our son’s trouser and raspberry tickled his bare bottom like he did to our daughter the other time. I want to address this again with him… see the message below that I want to send to him. Is the message fair enough without it sounding like I am sexualising things again?

I was molested by family member as a child, so I can be very cautious but I will also take advice because I don’t want to project on others, but at the same time I want to continue being cautious. Please be gentle with me

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The message that I want to send to my husband