Questions? Experienced TTCers

Hi! So, just a few questions for you experienced TTC ladies. I'm irregular and I used OPKs this month. I had positive OPKs on 20th and 21st (my smiley- CB advanced). On the 22 & 23 I had slight minimal pink spotting. Which I was counting as ovulation spotting. Which day would count as my start of # of DPO, since my test and spotting were spread over 4 days??
 So, I waited and tested this Sunday, because AF didn't show and it was a BFN. When should I test again? Also, shouldn't AF be coming soon if luteal phases are fairly consistent and an average of 14 days?  Thanks for any help!