I’ve been hooking up with this guy for a year and we started “talking” a couple months ago. But I’m questioning things. He says he’s been stressed and irritated about things with his job. Which I definitely believe because he’s someone who takes their job serious to the next level. But it’s like to the point he doesn’t want to be super romantic and isn’t really in the mood for see. Which I feel like would be fine if he was… different. I feel like it’s just turned into him always bitching about something. Asking what I’m wearing, what I’m doing, where I am, who my friends are. All my guy friends are automatically losers, have a crush on me, using me, going to rape me, etc. I can’t leave him on read. He always comments about if I spend money, if I drink, if I vape, if I go out late. Last night, I said he was lame for not texting, not realizing he was just really busy at work and he started going off and bitched about his day. Had 26 texts in a row about how he hated it. I was drinking with a guy I’ve known since middle school. He stopped talking to me when I told him and he said he was going to bed. Woke up this morning and he still wouldn’t talk to me so I talked to him and he said was mad and that I should know why. Goes on about how I’m going to end up a victim and need to smarten up. I try to say something and he says I’m not actually listening and never do and even compares it to how when you “discipline a child and the child pretends so they don’t get scolded”. And then starts bitching about today coming up at work. We(/he) also have INSANE double standards. He can do whatever he wants and I’m not supposed to question him otherwise he gets mad and/or goes off. But I say/do/wear anything “wrong” and I never hear the end of it. I feel like I tolerated it because we were having sex and I mistook his attitude as having feelings and was blinded. But as it goes on, I just quickly feel trapped.