The dr said that baby is going to be small she was 2lbs 13oz at my 29 week 6 days ultrasound I'm 30 weeks 2 days now

Knowing she will be tiny now I don't really want her passed around alot I've thought about getting a wrap so it's easier to say no because my brother's wife ( my sister-in-law ) is a bit over barring and likes to get upset , cry & start drama over stupid crap she's my baby & I'm stressing over the future cause to me this isn't stupid and I don't want my little girl passed around alot i dont wanna be pure pressured to be nice say yes all the time me and her dad want to bond with her but I'm scared of the drama that comes with saying no but I should be able to say no because I am mom 😔 any advice anyone 😔