Grumpy, depressive husband

I think my husband gets the winter blues, because he becomes depressive during the season. He’s more often home during the cold seasons which he has expressed he has severe anger and anxiety when our toddlers whine all day. I’m really trying to be understanding and supportive but I’m getting frustrated with how he deals stressful situations. It doesn’t take much for him to blow up and causing lots of chaos at home. He blames the kids and I said he needs to learn to get a higher tolerance because they are children, it’s what they do. The cry, scream and whine especially when they are not talking yet. I don’t know how to support or help him because I’m getting resentful