Any advice…… Ober the weekend me

And my partner had a huge fight, it didn’t get physical until he started saying bad things about my mother who I don’t talk to Bcs I’m

With him, they don’t like eachother I can said the he hates her. Anyway he started taking bad about her infront of our son, we had already talked about not taking about the reasons why he do t like my sons grandma infront of the kids he saids he wasn’t telling him but it’s basically the same thing if he was between us at this point he still didn’t care he continued and then it was about me saying bad things calling me names all this happen while my son as there, I don’t even remember how he started but it was Bcs of that I told him to shut up! He choke me infront of my son, he punch me by my ribs he threw me to the flr my son saw that he ran to me pick me up and corner himy son was really bad and started hitting him. I ask him to leave the house to pack he’s things he didn’t want too. So I call he’s brother and don’t answer, I had no one else to call so I call the cops, he video recorded me the entire conversation with the operator he opened the door I thought he was gonna wait for them, but he scream my name and said “your cops are coming.” When I got out of the rm he was gone. He got a charge obviously but now I feeling sad and emotional my son has an important soccer game this weekend, and well idk if should let him know? Or just leave it like that. I haven’t Hurd from him the last thing Ik is the he went to the house while I was gone and since the doors were locked he try to get in from the window. But he didn’t I’ve blocked him on my phone.

What should I do?? (Starting to miss him, I am basically alone it’s just my kiddos and me now. ;(