My sneaky link is moving and now I want a bf..

My sneaky link is moving out of state and it reminds me of how I want an official bf now.

Aside from my sneaky link, I have been casually dating a man that I am interested in having to be a bf, however, he is just a little boring/ lazy- which is a turn off for me.

In my next committed relationship, I also want to try a lot of sexy, witty behavior, similar to 50 shades of grey… so when should I have this conversation so that I know that me and my new relationship partner will be on the same page…?