I've been seeing my boyfriend almost 6 months. He has one kid who has been living with him the last year because his mom died. His step dad killed her during a DV situation in front of him. My boyfriend said he's just worried I will judge him as a parent because he may come off like he's babying is 14 year old but that he just sometimes can be difficult and he's trying to use a gentle parenting approach and recommended by his child's therapist. And that he can act really immature and has a hard time bonding with people. I was wondering if I should bring him a gift to help us bond or will that be too weird?