the last time we met in person was four months ago. he doesn't have a car so he has his mom driving him to our dates. we are 29. I gave him a break for a month and a half because I thought it would be difficult for him to meet up because of his situation. the next month I got diagnosed with an illness and was going at it trying to recover for two months. during that time he would check up on me and ask how I am doing and offer help. but we never met up. now it's the fourth month, and I am starting to feel better again so I asked him if he wants to hang out and play guitar. I say that i am busy this weekend but I am free next weekend. he said, I should be free the next two weekends. so the next weekend comes and he is sick so I don't ask him again until the following weekend and he tells me that he is busy this weekend with family and will also be busy the next weekend to go to arizona. when I call it out, he says "I am not ghosting you." like is he for real or is he trying to ghost me and avoid hanging out? for a while now he has been saying "we should hang out" but no follow up date.