I am 30 weeks pregnant and my baby shower was Saturday. I had over 30 people who said they were going to be there or would try to be there. The maybes never did rsvp with a firm yes or no. My mom and I spent so much time & money planning and preparing for 30 adults and their children. Only 5 friends came and only 3 of them got gifts. I had a couple of people who said they wouldn’t be able to make it and they did send gifts from my registry. But only 8 items from my registry were actually purchased. I still need so much for this baby boy. I’m so bummed and I feel like we should have saved the time, money and stress of the baby shower and just bought what I need for the baby instead. Luckily, I kept my toddlers bassinet and hadn’t sold most of his clothes, but there’s still so much I need. I am tapped out and I still need a car seat, double stroller, nursing supplies, hygiene stuff, pack n play, diaper bag big enough for baby and toddler stuff, bottles, more diapers & wipes, a swing,

rash cream, pacifiers, and clothes (3-6 and 6-9 month because I sold the ones I had not knowing I was going to have another baby).