So my husband and I split up this past winter and we got back together in April. We were still living together and occasionally having sex here and there.

But when him and I were separated, I slept with someone else. Yeah I fucked up. But what happens when we aren't together is none of his business.

Which him and I made boundaries together saying if we see other people that we don't discuss it with each other. Blah blah blah. So I never did.

Well a so called friend of mine went up to my husband a week ago and told him I slept with someone when we were separated. He came home hella pissed off. Calling me a cheater and a liar. All because I didn't tell him.

He now won't even say he loves me and the only thing to make him take his mind off of it is to have sex with him whenever he feels like it , more or less.

The first time we had sex after this is he finished on my back. Came back with a towel. Threw it at me and said clean yourself up.

Like I feel like his behavior is completely hurtful and he's more worried about himself than realizing we were split up. Not together. And we made a pact that we wouldn't fucking talk about it.

Mind you. This man has actually cheated on me when with me. He took girls out on dates. Went to strip clubs. Bought their onlyfans. Etc etc. And when I was upset about those things he told me I was being over dramatic. But what I did when we weren't together is far worse and he can treat me anyway he wants.

Sorry I just had to let that out because my gosh. It's been so hard. He told me I can't talk to any of my friends about it but he's messaging a girl from his work telling her everything about us. And has other girls in his dms rn that he's entertaining. Idk. I'm just struggling.

Someone tell me if I'm just reaping what I sew or if he's being completely unreasonable. Thanks in advance , loves.