So how would you feel if you and your husband talked about when you get pregnant with your second baby you can be a stay at home mom or a work from him job. But once your mother in law found that out she questioned your husband about her staying him and telling him she should watch both kids so you can keep working and save money but we’ll have to pay her $100 a day to watch our kids and provide everything. But on top of that your husband saids okay but never spoke to you about this? Now your husband wonders why your annoying with this situation