I recently “broke up”(?) with my situationship. He was really controlling and abusive. We used to work together and it was awful - he used work as a way to control/abuse me - until I quit. I quit because there was a guy who had a crush on me and was actively making moves on me but I didn’t know what to do because if I went to upper management, I know it would’ve just gotten back to my situationship and he would have freaked out. So I just kept quiet and tried to ignore/deny the advances. But I guess that didn’t matter because he got this girl hired to be “play spy” on me and she noticed it. She kept trying to tell me to go for him and date him behind situation’s back. Even tho I didn’t, and even told her I didn’t want to, she went back and told upper management that i was pursuing him. That was probably 5-6 months ago and ever since that, situation tightened up on monitoring my friends and trying to “correct” my interactions with people. I’m worried now because I was hoping to start new and him not know anything at all. But I need a job and the soonest I can get it is the same job but different location. But everyone gossips so I’m sure he’ll hear something at some point. And I get scared because I worry that even just hearing that I’m doing good or making friends or anything would make him feel some type of way and try to reach out to me or make issues. But I would make good money and I need that.