My husband and I have been married for 5 years. We have a 1.5 years old son. We have a good marriage for the most part when my husband isnt drinking. My husband goes through phases of drinking where he gets mean and scary. He has put his hands on me before and even threatened me which resulted in couple of weeks of separation. We also have a sexless marriage (its been at least 6 months). It used to bother me but im just numb to it and i dont care anymore. He started drinking on and off again. I never feel settled when he drinks. My heart sinks when my husband drinks. Idk what to do. We.tried counseling, crying, pleading and yelling. What would you do? I am tired