He doesn’t sleep with me at night

I’ve been living with my boyfriend a few months now and 2 months in to us living together he stoped sleeping in the bed with me. His excuse is that it’s too hot upstairs / noisy so he’s opted to sleep on the sofa ever since. Sometimes he wants to sleep in bed with me and sometimes he doesn’t . It’s been making me so angry lately because I feel he’s playing with my emotions when he does that, I get happy he sleeps with me and then he goes back to sleeping in the sofa or he wakes me up before work to have sex and that makes me more angry . He expects sex from me to cook and do all the things that make him happy but can’t do what would make me happy which is to sleep in bed together & yes I’ve expressed to him how I feel plenty of times