I am newly 29 years old and just found out I am spontaneously pregnant with my 3rd child, after having to undergo <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">fertility treatment</a> in order to have my 2nd child. The day after I found out I was pregnant, I accidentally found out that my nephew (24yo) is also expecting his first baby with his girlfriend. By my calculations we are only about a month apart along in our pregnancies, her around 13wks and myself around 9wks. I am extremely excited to announce my pregnancy as I never expected to have anymore children. My nephew and his girlfriend finally just announced to friends and family that they were expecting and we are ALL so excited for them. I obviously want to be respectful of them and not announce immediately, but not sure when would be the right time to do so.

With my first pregnancy we announced as soon as I was through the first trimester. With my second pregnancy we announced to close friends and family pretty much right away as we had been trying for over 3 years to have another baby, but waited until closer to 20 weeks to make it “public” knowledge.

I feel like I should wait longer to announce to anyone this time because I don’t want to risk them feeling like I’m trying to overshadow them, but I am also starting to show already, having really bad nausea, food aversions and extreme exhaustion so I don’t know how long I’ll be able to. Advice??