Am I being greedy?

Can you guys tell me if I’m being stingy.. Every single time we hang out with my husbands family, we pay. It’s so annoying to me. First, because the parents are LOADED and never get us gifts or even a baby shower gift! Or even a Christmas gift for our children! (They don’t believe in gifts, allegedly)

And then he has 7 siblings (who are also pretty well off) and anytime we hang out, they expect us to pay and my husband hasn’t put a stop to it. Recently we moved away so it’s been better but his mom came to visit and I just became aware that we paid for her gas the entire time she was here. Adding up to $250, keep in mind that when she comes, I cook with the food we purchase. I just find it very irritating. I could never imagine expecting someone to pay for my things like they do. I understand being generous but come on..

I want to add on that we are not rich. I would say that out of all of them we probably make the least