I have a 6 year old daughter (2018) and a 4 year old son (2020) after my son my husband and I joked that our son was enough! He was the equivalent of 2 kids and we were done we had a boy and a girl so it was complete. I got on birth control after in case we changed our minds. My husband the last year has said he wants a 3rd and gets baby fever. Now here we are my hair has been thinning really bad from birth control so we started talking about me getting off and maybe tying my tubes. My husband said he’ll support me whatever I choose. However I could tell deep down he was not ready to close that door. I asked him if he wants a 3rd but he said he doesnt want to force me to do anything I don’t want.

I honestly would be fine with either. I’m happy and content with the two we have but I’d be happy and fine with a 3rd also. Which is why it makes it so hard to choose! I’ve gotten my explain taken out. So now we have to figure out if we’re being precautious or just going with the flow. I’m worried about the age gap and the new baby being alone.

Any advice from anyone whos been in my situation I’d love to hear what u decided and how you feel.