For the past year I’ve been having sexual problems with my husband. It’s more of me not finishing but he finishes always. We had fights over it because he doesn’t arouse me enough or never does the oral to me but for him I do most of the work. He’s going to the doctor to see if it’s a problem he’s having because when I try to be on top he gets soft. The rest of the positions he is able to do and finish. I am always not satisfied and I sometimes masturbate because I don’t get fun out of this. I don’t know what to do I’ve talked to him again we’ve talked it out, he’s going to the doctor already and I feel it’s too much for me just to be arguing because sex should not be an issue someone should fight. Other than that my husband is a great husband very lovable with me and my kids good provider etc… but I just can’t finish or he doesn’t help me. Also during the day he teases me where he’s so sweet with me and kisses me but when it come to go to bed it’s disappointing. I don’t know what to do or what to say anymore I’m just sad. He always repeats he’s going to try better and that he’s already going to the doctor and ofcourse I understand men have issues but my husband is young he is 36 and I’m 8 years younger than he is. I love him very much, We have a family any suggestions? I just need to get this off my chest.

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