Straight to the fucking point !
My in laws < parents , and his older brother& wife > they all came . Took us by surprise to see my brother in law , they live 2 hrs from us they never come to family gatherings . They had a miscarriage in February 2022 she didn't know she was pregnant she was only 8 weeks . We haven't seen them since basically last Summer , took us by surprise real happy to see them . She kept bringing up the miscarriage to everyone my family asked omg when did she suffer that lost " February" omg so sad they say . < am not heartless i suffered 4 before having our twins> . We eat had fun around 9pm our kids are getting fussy bedtime is always at 7pm for them . My parents are the same lol they say " hey let us take the kids , we can have a movie night tomorrow come over " we say sure yes take them !!! Lol . The rest stayed till like maybe 11:30 . Forwarding to everyone leaving am giving the in laws blankets ,pillows . My brother in law says hey where's Gio < my husband> am like hes moving his bike back to the garage . He walked out few minutes later OMG LOL , my husband comes in mad they both walk in mad . I follow my husband back to the room " BABE WHAT'S WRONG "? he laughs " can you believe this MF says to me " can you guys not have sex tonight , we are trying for another baby and she feels like evey time we announce yall come with an announcement" i blink WHAT? I tell him " So you are telling me that they will be fucking in our house because they are trying .BUT WE CANT "? WTF LOL. I dont care if they are trying shit am happy for them damn .but why be so rude about it . And knock knock my mother in law " we are leaving bye"? We are like why ? She says " oh i cant be in a home where my family isn't welcomed" gio and me we look at each other WHO ISN'T WELCOMED? at this point we are wtf is going on here lol . My father in law is just sitting down enjoying some pie lol she continues " oh cant you just let them have this year , is it too much to ask "? Ok thats what's going on here lol . My husband turns the tv on so they can see the conversation they had in the garage . You can basically see his brother telling gio for us to not fuck and what hes wife feels . Thats when my father in law FINALLY STANDS UP !. Goes to our guest room with both of them and says " yall should be embarrassed coming to someone's home TELLING THEM THEY CANT FUCK because you feel uncomfortable why should you ? They have they own family last time i checked yall haven't been around since last summer we tried to be there for both of you when you had the miscarriage you didn't open the door for us hang up the phone on our faces when we called . Like yes a miscarriage is sad but you are milking the shit out of it .did you kkow they suffered 4 miscarriage FUCKING 4 before they had the twins ? Probably not why because they grieved them i saw her fall apart and pick herself up again she didn't milk it didn't made it her mission to bring it up every time , if you feel some sort of way towards her tell her YOU ARE IN HER HOME ! . Turns out she overhead more like was listening to my conversation with my sister and mom that we want to try for a third maybe during the summer once the twins start school in August .< little sidenote to all this , going on > she doesn't like me WHY YOU MAY ASK? , she had a mjor crush on my husband when they was in college they had a one night drunk thing and she thought dating his brother would make him jealous i guess .her sister told us this yesterday !
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