So me and my baby daddy aren’t together, we haven’t had sex since June. We simply co-exist around each other.

I drop my daughter off at daycare in the morning by 8am, he picks her up in my car and uses my car and takes her to his moms (they’re close as hell, my daughter and his mom) and I let him use my car to do whatever (his car got his from the back and totaled)- I probably do more than I should, I’m 98% responsible for my daughter financially (clothes, diapers, groceries- all me), I wash the clothes and that’s about it.

I have my own apartment, 46mins-1hr away depending on traffic, I came to my apartment this morning at 4-5am.

They’re supposed to be going out to eat with his family, I got everything situated for him for her (they’re outfit picked out, her hair stuff etc), last time I went back on the weekend- she stayed the night over there and he didn’t tell me until I was there and asked her where she was.

Anyways, I’ve been keeping him posted on what I’m doing, I’m soon moving out and deep cleaned my apartment and did my laundry, he hasn’t responded- is it safe to say I can stay home tonight?

🗣️yes I trust him, yes he can raise her, yes he handles her care- my thing is, him not responding. Do I assume he doesn’t need me and I can do whatever? I overthink, thanks!