I don’t think my husband likes me sexually

my husband plain and simple doesn’t want much to do with me I feel like. we are 28 and 29 years old. We will go WEEEEKS without sex and it’s never by my choice. He always says he’s just to tired. We’ve gone down this road and had this fight many times. I need sex. I’m not asking nightly but weekly would be ideal. He’s just never interested. It truly hurts my feels to be so frequently turned down alby my own husband and at my age I feel like it’s so stupid that we’re having this issue. Also, not even relating to sex he won’t initiate anything. If we kiss, it’s because I leaned in. If we hug it’s because I reached out. If we cuddle I’m the one who came and sat with him. I’ve also told him that his phone is a big problem in our marriage. You can’t have sec with me because you’re so tired but you can stay up for 45 extra minutes just watching videos and completely ignoring me.

It’s taking a major toll on me and I’ve had this talk with him many times. I just don’t know what to do at this point.