Im so scared that when i have my baby, my relationship with the father is going to fall apart. We have been together for 5 years, hes my soulmate i dont want the stress to result in me losing him. Hes really scared, we werent expecting this at all. Im 27, hes 28. Im scared too. We havent been to college, we dont have much of a routine and are still healing in self-discipline. I know we can make it work and we have a lot of support but i am really really scared hes going to call it quits with me eventually… he seems so sure that he wont but he also has said he is scared of how mucb its going to affect our relationship too.

We communicate so well, and the relationship is so healthy and strong and we want to be together forever…. But this is a HUGE and very unexpected change thats going to cause so much stress.

Dont get me wrong, im also really excited and i cant wait to meet my lil bean, i know its going to be the most amazing thing ive ever experienced and it will all be worth it. I just cant help but simultaneously worry and try to prepare myself for the worst so that i can be the best for my baby.