I feel taken for granted

Me and my boyfriend have been together for two and a half years. He moved away from our city a year ago so I’ve been going back and forth and it’s been so hard on us. I decided I was going to finally move in because he is always begging me to.

Sometimes he can be very sweet but others so selfish and it’s always the smallest things that upset me.

I cook for him every single day, I do his laundry, I clean the entire house, I constantly make sure he gets what he needs when he needs it. It’s always about him. What do I get in return? NOTHING. No flowers no dates no appreciation for all I do. He wouldn’t even have his laundry done if I didn’t do it. He is like a toddler and needs to grow up and is so selfish.

Last night I asked could we move some of his old clothes he doesn’t like or wear anymore then I said maybe we can donate them. The ones he does not wear. He replies with “no you can put your clothes in the other room or something you’re just gonna take all of my clothes and throw them away when I already don’t have a lot of clothes it’s my dresser not yours”

I never said I wanted to throw good clothes away. I tried to explain and he shut me up and wouldn’t let me talk. He has 13 drawers that he doesn’t want me to share with him. 13 drawers FULL of clothes he never wears. If I didn’t do his laundry those clothes wouldn’t even be in the dresser. I just think that’s so selfish… it hurt my feelings that he twisted my words and made me feel unimportant. I feel like when you love someone you make small sacrifices like sharing a dresser or making room for your partners things so y’all can be together. I just don’t understand. This is so small but it tells me a lot about him. I just do so much for him and I can’t even have a spot in the dresser. I wanted to

I wanted like I was at home and still in my room not his roommate. But