My parents do not approve each time I get pregnant and think I’m ruining my life. The first time I understood, I was 21 in college and I didn’t have a stable job then. Now I’m going to be 25 and I have a career and financial income. But everyone around me is still upset about me being pregnant again. My mom says I’m ruining my life and my daughters life by having another child.

The main issue is I was living with my mom so I could have help with my daughter. However since finding out about this pregnancy she basically wants me to leave and she wants to move out. Now she’s saying horrible things like accusing my current bf of being a child molester because I have a daughter and she’s like oh you never know what could happen if he’s left alone with her. She’s totally like turning against my bf all of a sudden despite knowing him for a year already and seeming like she accepted our relationship.

Then she’s like oh if only you hadn’t wanted a bf and stayed single so we could’ve all stayed living together. But I’m like idk I wanted companionship and a family one day because I wanted more children. But she’s insinuating I shouldn’t have those wants and hopes.

It just sucks because I’m in a similar situation as last time, getting kicked out because I got pregnant and everyone disapproving of the pregnancy. Only now I’ll have to figure out on my own what place I’ll get and change jobs to where I can pick up and drop off my daughter.

It’s stressful that every pregnancy is accompanied by my entire family disapproving and saying I’m doing the wrong thing. Then my mom is trying to say that I’m choosing my bf over her when she’s putting that out there herself and being selfish and acting like I have to just cater to her and not have relationships. Hopefully I can find a place and get my daughter settled in childcare ;( it’s just a big adjustment and it sucks it has to be done during my pregnancy again 😭