Clit stimulation durning sex

I only orgasm with clit stimulation ,and i really want to orgasm with my Man . I usually orgasm by laying on my bed with my legs crossed and squeezing them . I don’t get off by using my fingers or humping pillows even tho id love to learn how use a pillow ,and i dont like vibrators it’s to much for me and i want my man to know he made me orgasm not a toy . I’ve been trying to do the same thing but just on my side so when we have sex i can squeeze with his dick inside me but i have been able to too .i need helpppp