Have you ever had a fantasy you didn’t know you had? About two years ago we bought a large mirror at a yard sale. It sat on a dresser in our bedroom til my husband could hang it. One night my husband bent me over the bed and was particularly aggressive with me. I was positioned with the mirror across from me, facing me. I happened to look up without my husband’s notice. I literally watched his face as he tore into my insides. I watched his whole body wind up and ram into me. It was a surreal experience. I sat there and for the first time actually watched myself be used. My eyes slammed shut when I orgasmed, but it was so intense detaching myself from myself and being able to watch my man literally “have his way” with my body. I talked to my husband about it and he loved it. The mirror stayed where it was and we put another full length mirror on our bedroom door. Now whenever my husband is feeling dominant, which I have come to really enjoy, he puts me in front of a mirror and makes me watch what’s done to me. Nothing turns me on like standing in front of a full length mirror completely naked while he gropes my breasts and crotch or being told to stand there and spread my legs and watching myself do it. Even spankings he gives me occasionally are done in the mirror. Of course, my husband gets off on all this too. I think what I like about the mirror is the detachment I get from watching myself. I also think that watching it happen to me, makes the experience even more real than just feeling it happen. Bad analogy, but it’s like reading a “pop up” children’s book. The point I’m making though is that this mirror concept has become a fantasy or fetish of mine and it happened totally by accident. I just happened to open my eyes one night and enjoyed watching myself. I hope that wasn’t too weird. Didn’t mean to share TMI, but it’s a wild thing that happened in our marriage and it changed the way we have sex! I had a fantasy I didn’t even know I had! Makes me wonder what else I might unlock.