Ugh just anxiety- need opinions. 🤦🏼‍♀️

I buy my girls a pair of crocs every year for the summer. I’m also getting a new pair cause I love them for gardening/summer slip on. My oldest daughter wants the same color as me cause she always wants to to do and have what mama does… I originally added a purple pair for my youngest so my girls didn’t have the same color but now I’m torn if we should all having matching pink crocs so my youngest doesn’t feel left out, or if she should be the one with purple so my daughters aren’t matching? I don’t want her to be left out from matching mama….