My guy is 15 years older than me, I'm 34, hes 49. He takes care of me and loves me. For the past 4 years he hasnt been able to "get up" unless i do oral. He reads sexy scifi books on audible and watches alot of movies lately, i find him 90% of the day either on his phone or watching tv, at night he comes to bed and listens to audible to fall asleep. I feel like I'm alone? Unattractive? Or maybe its the age difference? I don't know. He's somewhat affectionate but not as much as 6 years ago when we started dating. I know he isnt cheating so, no that isnt the case at all. I've tried lingerie, tried being naked and nothing seems to work except for my lips.