Bit of sticky situation

Got £650 saved with my daughter aunt (I’m terrible with money) we are supposed to be going on holiday in August and that’s mainly why I was saving the money. I have to now use the money to pay of some debts that I have it won’t clear the whole lot but it’ll start something. I need to ask the aunt for the money but she’s going to ask why I need it and I don’t want to tell her the reason for that as she can be critical and judgemental of me. So do I leave the money and then I can do a Debt relief order or what do I do?