Baby #3?

We have a daughter (3) and son (5). When we had our daughter we moved, my husband started a new job. We both worked full time. Lots of busy days and hard work.. and we said we were done.

Now my daughter is 3, and I’m home and have the life I prayed for when we had my son.

My husband is not totally on board for another child, he has fear and anxiety.

Mostly, due to the fact that many family members unwilling give their two cents, “ you have one of each why would you want another” “do you really think you need another” just one hateful comment after another.

We have a great life, we farm, we are SOO blessed.

Those with 2+, how did you make the decision when you look at things financially, splitting your selves into 3rds.

Do you have any guilt?