Update: Advice on ex boyfriend and reconciliation

UPDATE:

We talked for the first time since the breakup on Tuesday. Admitted to our own faults. We had more good times than bad but we need to work on ourselves and both seek therapy for different aspects of our lives. We agreed it would be best to give each other time and check in with each other in a month or so from now to see how we’re doing and feeling. He admitted to wanting to do more than just hug me but I told him if it’s meant to be, he will do it again in the future. Right now that would set us both back in our current progress.

ORIGINAL POST:

My now ex-boyfriend broke up with me over the phone while he was continuing Christmas vacation down in NC with his parents. I had gone down with him but could not stay as long due to not having as much PTO. He apparently had a talk with his parents about his future and decided he couldn’t be with me anymore. I will be seeing him Tuesday (1/14) to discuss and retrieve my things I left at his apartment. There was no cheating involved on either side. What are the chances we get back together after we work on ourselves?

@Allison you don’t need to be rude. I gave an update to my original post. Have a good night!