Moms pls help! 25 and need advice

Okay so I’m 25 still live at home I’m still in school just got my bachelors I work full time but I just got out of a 9 year relationship because he cheated after 7 years (it took me over a year to get over him cheating and I kept trying to make it work that’s why it took so long for me to realize it’s not what I wanted for myself) I decided I wanted to work on me and do my own thing and explore other people. Now I’m 25 and I’ve only been with that guy so he’s my only body. Well when me and my ex broke it off I didn’t tell my mom right away, I didn’t even tell anyone he cheated until last September because I was really trying to make it work. 2 weeks after I told my mom everything and how I met a guy on a dating app and we went on a date (sushi) and went back to his house to walk his dog and then I left since then we’ve had a few more dates and I’ve hung out at his place. She told me she was disappointed that I’m putting myself on a dating app and how unsafe it is and how I shouldn’t have went to his house and she doesn’t want me to keep going. I’m not saying I don’t see her point of view because I’ll admit for a first date it’s a bit crazy to go to a guys house. she gets so annoyed and frustrated with me anytime I mention hanging with him. I’m just upset because it’s not like I’m a hoe up in guys house left and right and I don’t do anything i dont even go to friends houses only my study buddy for school aside from that im home all day everyday or in school its just frustrating because i understand im still her daughter under her roof and never want to go against her and disrespect her but where do i draw the line and say im 25 and want to live a little even if its just for a short while i stay on top of all my stuff so i honestly feel stuck. I want to talk to her about it but she always gets frustrated and says i think i know best and im just going to have to learn the hard way but at the same time shes telling me i should have a plan A, B, C and D and explore all different size shapes and colors!? Like it’s so confusing for me pls help!!!