My husband doesn't want to get up in the morning and when I tell him he needs to give me ONE day a week to sleep in, he acts like I'm the problem

My husband used to get up with our daughter every morning because I did her nighttime routine. Then he started sleeping in during the week and I would have to get up earlier and earlier doing more and more until I started being late for work. I started doing everything for our daughter in the morning while he slept in.

I told him I was resentful because I was doing everything with her at that point and I was getting up at 5:30 during the week to get ready for work, get our daughter ready, and drop her off at daycare and get to work. I told him if he can't get up, then on the weekend I need a couple days to sleep in. He said no, we're both parents and this is the sacrifice we make.

I asked do you even hear yourself? I am asking you to let me sleep in TWICE for every FIVE days you sleep in. I am waking up THREE WHOLE HOURS before you do during the week. On the weekend, I can't sleep in because you tell me that it's the only time you can sleep in. Now I'm the one taking our daughter to daycare every day just so I can get to work on time. Half the time he works from home in the morning because he gets up very late, then gets ready over lunch and spends the rest of the day in the office.

Last night, I told him that on Saturday (today) I am sleeping in. Don't disturb me before 9am. I slept in the guest room. At 7am, he started texting me and eventually called me. At 7:30 he burst in and yelled how I was ignoring him and our daughter. I told him we talked about this yesterday and I'm sleeping in. He said get out of bed and deal with our daughter.

I'm so fucking mad. I told him sure, I'll spend time with our daughter because you're acting like a selfish brat. But you know how next weekend you want to go fishing? Not happening anymore. If you can't let me sleep in until 9am even for one day, I am not doing you any favours. Afterall, parents make sacrifices, right?

This turned into a huge fight and I said I'm not arguing about this. I am making reasonable requests of you, as an adult and a parent. If I need to, I am hiring a babysitter for the occasional Saturday and Sunday mornings so I can meet MY wants and needs since you refuse to help me out AKA be a fucking parent.

Is this too much to ask? He's like oh I'm getting blood work to see why I'm so tired and I'm like great, but you have no problem getting up to go fishing almost every weekend. You have no problem staying up late to play video games. Funny how that works.

I'm just frustrated and he told me I was acting like a bitch and not being understanding. I had to stop talking with him at that point. He called me an asshole.

I love my daughter but I can't rely on my husband for anything with her. He gets mad when I come up with solutions so I can get what I need. Am I the asshole?