Getting over your bd..

How did you ladies get over the man you had a baby with?

I’m 28 and he is 25. He left me around 22 weeks and now I’m 36 weeks. He has admitted to me that he has gone on dates and had sex with multiple women. Still when he texts me how much he misses his family and how he still is in love with me I fall for it every time. He told me he isn’t ready to come home but when he is, he hopes I still let him back.

I know I’d be so stupid to let him back in and I want more than anything to move on and get what I deserve but I still hold hope for a real family for my daughter. How do I get from under this hold he has on me and truly move on with my life?