Anyone have Intrauterine growth restriction with there first?

I had Intrauterine growth restriction with my first child that wasn’t diagnosed till 2 weeks before he was born and that was only because I had to be hospitalised at birth, he also had duodenal atresia which we didn’t know about till the night he was born. As you can imagine it was really scary thinking you had a healthy pregnancy to finding out the complete opposite. I do think my team of drs were rubbish though so for the second I’d go to a different hospital.

My mom also had issues with her placentas with both me and my brother and we were both prem but no congenial deformities.

I’d love another one but I’m scared off it happening again, I’m not even sure what type of dr to see to talk about those types of risks.

Anyone else had hard first pregnancy’s? What was your second like? I know every pregnancy is different but I’d just like to hear people’s stories.