Husband doesn't come to bed with me

My husband recently started a new job at a warehouse. He lost his other job because they shut down and he was really depressed. He's a felon so it's harder for him to find a job. He found one it's second shift. He worked 4pm-12:30am. We used to go to bed together. I expected him to come to bed after he gets off of work but he almost never does. I've woken up with him not in the bed and in the living room playing videos games or making himself food when he had dinner at work. I have spoken to him about my feelings several times that I want him to come to bed when he gets home and he hust ssys he can't go to sleep the second he gets home. My feelings are really hurt. Am I being ridiculous?