Married no access to accounts

Am i wrong for wanting the account info to my own phone and wifi? Or even the house? Im married and am a stay at home mom at the moment. My hisband pays our bills right now. My phone.is in his account with spectrum. Our house we own were both on the title buy the online account is in his name. I have no access to those. I wanted access so i can see for myself sometimes. To me it shouldn't matter if its in his name if its both ours and were married shouldnt i be able to have access when i want? I used to have the account information to our phones and wifi. My new phone came in today and it said to go to this link to acitivate so i tried and i noticed the log in information dont work and he must had.changed it. So i tell him to.please send me the user name and password so i have access he tells me he will call and activate it when he goes home. I said why i can jusy do.it myself and plus i want access to it. Itis my own phone and our wifi i want the information for myself. He goes on and on about me not trusting him and I dont need it since im not paying it and gets mad. I tell him why are you acting like that were married and these are shared things i should have access to it as whenever pleased. He jumps straight saying hes sending the phone back and hes not paying for it and telling me to just get a prepaid phone and all this. Im so upset. Im a 28 year old woman and married i should have access to my own damn phone or any bills for that matter that I use. Is he right.and me wrong because i feel hurt over this.