Hygiene….

My boyfriend of 5 years doesn’t do any hygiene stuff anymore. Like he brushes his teeth once or twice a week. Showers once or twice a week. And just overall smells gross. I’ve told him so many times and every time he gets butthurt and says I’m being mean. Then he complains that I don’t wanna have sec with him anymore…. And I tell him it’s because he’s gross and doesn’t take care of himself anymore and then he throws a fit. When we first met he was even cleaner than I was. This was the type of dude who would brush his teeth after every meal if he could. Showered every night no matter what. Now it’s like I have to beg him to do simple ass things. I was complaining about it to my girlfriend and so we looked at his instagram following and he started following all these hippie van life type people. Like the type of white people with braids who think pouring water on them is showering. I don’t get it!! What’s with the sudden interest!?