Too wett

So I have had this problem my whole life, I get wett I mean really wett. At first it didn't bother me, even had a partner tell me that he loved it, I also had one guy say it was the reason why he didn't go down on me. My partner now says he likes it but honestly as I am getting older I hate it. The mess it makes, I have to change my underwear after we have sex because of foreplay. I wonder if anyone else has the problem and when is too much?