Well I’m not sure

So what if a man slept with you then developed narcissistic abusive behaviour then went to another girl who you were close with and then made you feel like garbage because he was VERY guilty of a lot including his choice. You never did any serious damage and he selected you to focus on as a target for his narcissistic abuse and chose another person to love in front of you.

Will he ever stop this? I’m not delusional just incredibly hurting too much after this. Any friendly advice? Do I leave him to hurt me? Because it’s impossible to find him to confront at the moment. I want peace for once I want to be validated and able to move on. I’m in a sense too old to deal with younger people at the moment. I can’t deal with this!

He won’t stop hurting me infront of this girl. She is inlove with him for this. I am too done. I have reached all limits. This is too hard for me.

He loves her too much and tells me to sit down, as in step back because it’s none of my business. He does this relationship in front of me. I can’t see the man I slept with sleep with someone so close to me and see her not love me after this, but love him instead. It’s like my love for her is not paramount to this affair they are having.