Am I wrong for being upset?

My husband is graduating soon from his doctorate program and he demanded that I throw him a celebration party after. He said that if I don't or if it's not up to his standards then there will be major consequences to our relationship and that he may even consider divorce. We have been married for 8 years.

So I made a facebook event page for it and invited the people that we know from my friends list that he would want there (literally almost his entire family except 2 people that I am not friends with because they are toxic). Well he saw that I created the event and looked at the people who confirmed they would go. Literally every single family member on his side (besides 1 aunt (attending another graduation that day and then the 2 people that I don't have added) and my family (making 10+ people) marked as going. He looked at it and looked at me and said "ok great so basically no one is going." And i said how is that literally 10+ people are going. He didn't answer. I said I couldn't invite the other 2 because I'm not friends with them so if he could invite them to the event it would be incredibly helpful. This man threw a fit. He started yelling at me saying that he refuses to plan his own party and that I am responsible for everything and that he will not invite them himself or do anything to help. So if I don't find a way to invite them then it's completely on me and it comes with consequences.

I feel so emotionally and mentally wrecked right now with the way he is talking to me. Like how fucking dare he speak to me this way.... It makes me not want to plan a single fucking thing because he's acting like an entitled nasty fucking child.