Would you get back with your ex after they slept with someone else?

This isn't a question of whether it's wrong or right, obviously they are free to do whatever they want outside the relationship and while single, but hypothetically, in your situation, would you?

I personally wouldn't. While it doesn't change my opinion of them as a person, I think it comes down to a self-respect thing. I wouldn't want to be with someone who had to explore other people to realize the value they have with me. I wouldn't want to be with someone who has to compare my love to others to see if it’s worth keeping around.

Me and my ex have been on and off with no consistent relationship for almost 10 months. He tries to come back every time I haven’t been in the picture for some time and I have finally put my foot down wjth him and ended things. He always claimed he was not interested in hookups bc he needs connection to feel attraction. He now claims he’s making all the efforts to work on himself so that he can hopefully earn a chance to work this out with me, and has admitted that he has tried sleeping with 2 girls (2 weekends back to back) this February and wasn’t able to get hard either time. It’s nice to know that I have that kind of hold over him BUT he still tried to sleep with other girls and that is not who I thought he was. I’m sure it was a way of him trying to feel something but even so, it seems like he’s only coming back because his greener pastures didn't work out and now he wants to choose me as a second option.

Regardless of just this, there are several other reasons why I would not consider getting back with my ex at this time. He’s seriously been struggling mentally and I wish him all the best either way but I cannot put myself back into a situation with someone who wasn’t able to reciprocate my

Love and effort. It is not worth the anxiety.