Seems like all I do lately is piss off my daughter

Hi girls. This is an update post. I made a post about my 14 year old daughter having a period and having to put her bloody underwear in a paper bag. She put it on the kitchen table. I was making lunch for my son's soccer team and accidentally grabbed it. So one of my son's friends got it. She blamed me. Then the boy gave her the bag back. She said it was awkward and he was kind of embarrassed but didn't make a big deal. He said his mom washed it. That's why it's clean and he promised he didn't touch it. I thought it was great he didn't make a big deal out of it. Now she's mad at not only me but my son too. My son's friend had been really nice to her and she developed a crush on him which he's almost 17 so a little old for her. But why she's upset is because she went to ask him out and he told her he's gay. Why she's mad at my son is my son never told her he was gay. My son said he's never had a boyfriend their entire friendship so he honestly forgot he's gay. She's mad at me because she asked me how to get a gay guy to like her and I said you can't. It's best to move on. She said maybe she can convince him she's great. I said that's not gonna work Hun and she isad because she thinks I'm telling her that her personality isn't good enough to turn a gay guy straight. Well it's not... That's now how that works. I also told her that if someone rejects her regardless of sexuality you have to respect that because to keep pushing is harassment. She said I never support her and she's mad because I think she doesn't have a shot.

I hate puberty. I fucking hate it. She is so emotional and angry all the time. And she's mad at her brother over nonsense. Do I have any puberty moms? How are surviving?