Childless not by choice?

Question

Is anyone else childless not by choice? I would do anything to not be a part of this group. It’s a very lonely and grief filled journey. I feel like my partner doesn’t even understand how I’m feeling because he already has 4 kids from previous partners. I’ve decided to stop trying after 5 miscarriages and now I have to come to accept my new future life and dreams.

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Same girl, same. 2 losses were enough for me and I am literally too scared to want to try again. The loneliness and grief definitely comes in waves and sometimes those waves hit hard. You are not alone 🤍

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I tried for years and years. Never saw a positive test. I have MS so i decided it was best to stop trying. My husband and I found a way to still live a happy life. Honestly we have alot more freedom than our friends with kids. And im in the US so the school system has always been a fear of mine a little bit. We have 3 dogs and 2 reptiles. I research enrichment activities with them and i cook some of their food and treats so im always reading about caring for them. I have started to garden and love watching the veggies grow. I dreamed of being a mom my whole life and spent a decade as a nanny while in college. At one point i felt like i failed at being a woman like my body is designed for this. But i know now its not my fault. I know one day ill be an amazing aunt (i have 4 younger sisters). Then when im tired they will go home to their house haha. You can find happiness in life without children.

Childless not by choice?

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