Ruining the best relationship I’ve ever had

I’ve been seeing a guy for about 2 years and we’ve been “official” for about a year. We’re both recently divorced when we met. He’s been married twice with 3 kids(30,21,17) and I’ve been married once with 2 kids (14 and11).It was super casual in the beginning and neither wanted to get married again. This relationship has grown into something incredible. This man is everything I didn’t know I needed. I feel loved, safe and excepted. He tells me that I’m the best for him as well. Now I want more and he still doesn’t. Now we’re in this awful cycle. Every couple of months or so i get swept up in this and bring up future planning like moving in together. I end up with my feelings hurt. He’ll tell me to just enjoy today or tell me it’s too soon. I don’t want anything right away, I just want to know that it’s a possibility, that we’re on the same page. I want to build a life with this man.

For a while now he’s been talking about buy a house in the next year or two. I finally asked if I’m part of those plans. It broke my heart when he said no. He said we’re not there yet. It doesn’t sound like he wants to wait until we’re “there”. I’m not sure if I’ll ever be enough for him.

Now I’m trying to figure my own plans because I’m not apart of his and it just hurts. Am I wrong for wanting more now?