Mom upset that we wasted her $200

Me and my husband had our wedding anniversary two days ago. Last month my mom wanted to get us something for our wedding anniversary. She asked would we like couples massages. I said no. My husband wouldn't like something like that. He does not like many people touching him because he was molested when he was a child and had other stuff happen to him in college. I told my mom this. I didn't out his trauma. He's open about it. But he doesn't really like being touched. I always asked for consent before touching him. Well my mom decided to tell me the day before that she went and did it anyway and she scheduled me and my husband couple massages for the following day. My husband didn't like that gift and he declined it. I told my mom he wouldn't want to do it. She said she figured he could use it to face his trauma. I don't believe that. I think she just didn't want to listen to me. But my husband kept declining. My mom couldn't cancel because it was less than 72 hours notice so she couldn't get a refund. She's mad and saying we wasted her money when she tried to do something nice but I told her not to do this