Pregnant or not?

So I’m wondering if I should take a test or not yet. I’m 5 days late and only missed my bc pill once this month. I’ve been under some stress with my son having been so sick the last month also. I’ve been known to miss a day or two but never 5 or more days. I’ve been bloated and a bit moody but I thought that way cause my period was supposed to start. In the last month my bf and I have only had sec a couple times so I’m not sure if I should test myself or not. We’re also 33 years old and I know it’s harder to get pregnant the older a woman gets. Any suggestions?