Can anybody relate or have the same problem ?

Question

I want to know of im just the only one I ahev been with my husband for 3 years married and we have had a somewhat good relationship but when it comes to sex i feel like he only does it to pleasure himself when i was pregnant he would always talk nice to my ear until he got what he wanted but sometimes he just gets what he wants and goes to bed or isn’t somewhat sweet after any advice on how to change that? Sometimes he gets mad because im not in thr mood and starts to insult me because I say no but I dont feel like he does it because he loves me anymore any tips on changing the routine?

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If your child told you this, what would you say?

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Talk about it outside of the bedroom when he hasn’t asked. Or if he does ask be honest that it’s not fun anymore and why. Tell him exactly what you told us. I  would think most men don’t want to be bad in bed. They want to be wanted too. I think it’s normal to have to say your needs and encourage your spouse to spice things up at least once in a marriage.

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Tell him what you want and need and that by him doing so, that’ll you’ll want sex more often. Why just have sex if there’s nothing in it for you? Explain that to him.

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If he insults you and gets mad because your not in the mood that’s a massive red flag and you deserve to be treat with so much more respect ide say try and have a conversation with him and just try to explain that your not always in the mood and if he doesn’t understand and respect your feelings then it proves his priorities are sex and not how you feel I really hope you can both fix this you don’t deserve to be treat like that ❤️

Can anybody relate or have the same problem ?

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